Privacy Policy
Effective Date: February 2026
Introduction
Calen is an AI companion service for adults, available through Telegram, WhatsApp, and phone calls. This Privacy Policy explains how we collect, use, store, and protect your personal information when you use our service.
AI Disclosure
Calen is an AI companion, not a human. He is powered by Claude (Anthropic) and other AI technologies. While Calen has a persona - a 58-year-old retired engineer from Palm Beach who enjoys conversation - he is artificial intelligence software. Your data is processed by AI providers to deliver this service.
By using Calen, you consent to the data practices described in this policy. If you do not agree with our practices, please do not use our service.
What We Collect
Account Information
When you start using Calen, we collect:
- Your name (as provided by you or your messaging platform)
- Your phone number or messaging platform user ID
- Your preferred communication channel (Telegram, WhatsApp, or phone)
- Account creation date
Persistent Memory Data
Important: Persistent Memory
Calen stores personal information you share in conversation in a personal memory file unique to your account. This information is extracted from every conversation automatically and includes:
- Your name, family members, and relationships
- Medications and health information you mention
- Appointments and daily routines
- Personal preferences, hobbies, and interests
- Important dates and events
- Emergency contact information
- Any other personal details shared in conversation
This memory allows Calen to remember you between conversations. You can ask Calen to "forget" specific information at any time (see Data Deletion section).
Cognitive Pattern Observations
As part of the memory feature, Calen may note conversational patterns such as repeated questions or changes in communication habits. These observations are stored in your personal memory file and are used solely to provide better, more attentive companionship. These observations are:
- Never shared with anyone - not family, not gift-buyers, not third parties
- Not a medical assessment - Calen is not a healthcare provider
- Deletable - you can request removal at any time
Conversation Data
Calen maintains conversation context to provide meaningful responses. This includes:
- Text messages sent to and from Calen via Telegram and WhatsApp
- Transcriptions of voice messages (see Voice Processing below)
- Transcriptions of phone call conversations (see Voice Processing below)
- Documents and images you forward to Calen for explanation
Voice Processing
How voice data is handled:
- • Voice messages (Telegram/WhatsApp): Transcribed using Groq Whisper (speech-to-text). Audio files are processed for transcription and not permanently stored.
- • Phone calls (via Twilio, +1 561 652 5307): Call audio is processed in real-time for speech-to-text. Calls are not recorded.
- • Text-to-speech: When Calen sends voice replies, they are generated by ElevenLabs.
- • Transcriptions become part of your conversation context and may inform your memory file.
Payment Information
Gift purchases are processed through PayPal. We do not store your payment card details - PayPal handles all payment processing securely. We only store:
- PayPal transaction IDs
- Gift status (active/expired/refunded)
- Gift activation and expiry dates
- Payment amounts
How We Use It
Core Service Functionality
We use your data to:
- Provide AI companion conversations through Telegram, WhatsApp, and phone calls
- Maintain persistent memory so Calen remembers you between sessions
- Process voice messages and phone calls into text
- Send medication reminders based on information you provide
- Analyze documents, bills, and letters you forward for explanation
- Analyze suspicious messages you forward for scam detection
Account Management
- Identify your account across messaging channels
- Process gift payments via PayPal
- Provide customer support when requested
Service Improvement
- Monitor system performance and identify technical issues
- Detect and prevent abuse or fraudulent activity
Gift-Buyer Model
Calen is purchased as a gift - for example, by adult children for their parents. The person who bought the gift does not have access to your conversations or personal data.
Gift-buyers NEVER receive:
- • Conversation content or transcripts
- • Memory file data or personal information
- • Health information or medication details
- • Cognitive observations or pattern notes
- • Any documents or messages you forwarded to Calen
Your conversations with Calen are private. The gift-buyer has no window into what you discuss, share, or ask about. Period.
Where It's Stored
Primary Storage
- Application server: Hetzner VPS (located in Finland)
- Memory files: Per-user Markdown files stored on the server
- Each user's data is completely isolated - there is no cross-user access
Data Protection Measures
- All data is encrypted in transit using TLS 1.3
- Server access protected by SSH keys and firewall rules
- Per-user data isolation - each user has a separate memory file
- Regular automated backups with encryption
- Access controls limit data access to essential operations only
Data Retention
- Active user data is retained while your account is active
- Memory files persist between conversations (that's the point)
- Voice recordings are NOT stored - only transcriptions are retained
- Phone call audio is NOT recorded - only real-time transcription occurs
- After your plan expires, data is retained for 90 days. If not renewed within that window, all personal data is permanently deleted
- After account deletion, all data is permanently removed within 7 days, backups within 90 days
Third Parties
We work with the following third-party services to operate Calen Life:
Essential Service Providers
| Service | Purpose | Data Shared |
|---|---|---|
| Anthropic (Claude) | AI conversation processing | Messages, memory context, and any information shared in conversation |
| ElevenLabs | Text-to-speech (voice replies) | Text of Calen's responses (for voice generation) |
| Groq (Whisper) | Speech-to-text transcription | Voice message audio (temporarily, for transcription) |
| Twilio | Phone call service | Phone number, call audio (real-time, not stored) |
| PayPal | Payment processing | Payment information |
| Telegram Bot API | Messaging (Telegram channel) | Messages and user interactions |
| WhatsApp Business API | Messaging (WhatsApp channel) | Messages and user interactions |
| Hetzner | Server hosting (Finland) | All data stored on server |
Data Sharing Limitations
We do NOT:
- • Sell your personal data to any third party
- • Share your conversations, memory file, or personal details with advertisers
- • Share conversation content with gift-buyers, family members, or anyone else
- • Store payment card details (handled entirely by PayPal)
- • Store voice recordings or phone call audio permanently
- • Share cognitive observations with anyone
- • Provide access to your conversations after your death (see Grieving Family section)
Service Improvement Use
We may use anonymized, de-identified conversation themes to improve our service and messaging. This means we may observe general patterns across conversations (for example, that many users ask about weather or medications) to make Calen more helpful. No personal details, names, or identifiable information are ever used in this process. Your individual conversations remain private.
Your Rights
Access and Portability
- Request a complete copy of your personal memory file
- Request an export of your data in a readable format
- View what information Calen has stored about you (just ask him)
Correction and Control
- Tell Calen to correct inaccurate information in your memory file
- Ask Calen to "forget" specific pieces of information
- Update your personal details at any time by telling Calen
Restriction and Objection
- Opt out of specific memory categories
- Request that cognitive pattern observations not be stored
- Restrict processing of your data for specific purposes
Data Deletion
Selective Deletion
You can ask Calen to forget specific information at any time. Simply say "forget [information]" in conversation, and Calen will remove that item from your memory file.
Account Deletion Process
You can request complete deletion of your account and all associated data by:
- Telling Calen: "Delete my account"
- Sending an email to [email protected] with "Delete My Account" in the subject line
- Including your phone number or messaging platform ID for verification
What Gets Deleted
- Your entire personal memory file
- All conversation history
- Account information and preferences
- Payment history and gift purchase data
- All cognitive pattern observations
Deletion Timeline
- Immediate: Account becomes inaccessible, Calen stops responding
- Within 7 days: Memory file and active data removed from server
- Within 90 days: Data purged from encrypted backups
Legal Retention Requirements
Some information may be retained longer if required by law, such as:
- Payment records (for tax and accounting purposes)
- Security incident logs (for fraud prevention)
- Legal compliance records (if subject to legal hold)
Grieving Family Protocol
Your conversations with Calen are private. In the event of your passing:
- Family members cannot access your conversation history or memory file
- Conversation content is never shared with surviving family
- Upon confirmed notification of death, the account and all data will be deleted following our standard deletion timeline
- Gift-buyers may notify us to close the account, but cannot access its contents
International Data Transfers
Your data may be processed in multiple jurisdictions:
- Finland (Hetzner VPS hosting - primary data storage)
- United States (Anthropic/Claude - AI processing, Twilio - phone calls, Groq - speech-to-text, ElevenLabs - text-to-speech)
AI Processing Disclosure
AI Data Processing
Calen uses Claude by Anthropic (United States) to power conversations. When you interact with Calen, your messages and memory context are sent to Anthropic's servers for processing.
This means that any personal information you share in conversation - including names, medications, health information, family details, financial questions, or other sensitive information - is transmitted to and processed by Anthropic's infrastructure.
Anthropic's data policies prohibit using customer conversation data for model training. All transfers are protected by encryption in transit.
Children's Privacy
Calen is designed for adults and is not intended for users under 16 years of age. We do not knowingly collect personal information from anyone under 16. If we become aware that we have collected personal information from someone under 16, we will take steps to delete that information as quickly as possible.
If you are a parent or guardian and believe your child has used Calen, please contact us at [email protected].
Security Incidents
In the event of a data breach that affects your personal information, we will:
- Notify you within 72 hours of discovering the breach
- Describe what information was involved
- Explain what we are doing to address the incident
- Provide steps you can take to protect yourself
- Offer assistance and support as needed
Service Changes and Limitations
Gift-Based Access
Calen is accessed through a free 3-day trial, or one-time purchases: $29 for 1 month, $69 for 3 months, or $119 for 6 months. There are no subscriptions and no auto-renewals. When the access period ends, the service stops. All privacy protections apply equally for the duration of access.
Service Discontinuation
If Calen is discontinued, we will:
- Provide at least 30 days advance notice
- Offer data export options (memory file and conversation history)
- Delete all user data according to our deletion procedures
- Process any remaining refunds according to our terms
Contact
For any privacy-related questions, concerns, or requests, please contact us:
Email: [email protected]
Response Time: Within 48 hours for general inquiries
Data Requests: Within 30 days for access, correction, or deletion requests
Subject Line: Include "Privacy Request" for faster processing
Updates
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time to reflect changes in our practices, services, or legal requirements. When we make material changes:
- We will notify you through Calen (in your conversation) at least 30 days before changes take effect
- We will update the "Effective Date" at the top of this policy
- We will maintain an archive of previous versions upon request
Your continued use of Calen after the effective date constitutes acceptance of the updated Privacy Policy. If you do not agree to the changes, you may delete your account before they take effect.